My husband told me that he always thought it would be really cool to be with someone who could squirt, however he fell in love with me, a former non-squirter.  One night, much to our surprise, I ejaculated when we tried a new position.  He felt it on his leg and we both just looked at each other and tried to figure out what it was.  We didn't know if it was pee or what.  He thought it might have been female ejaculation. 

    Due to my natural curiosity and love for trying new things sexually, we began reading up on it, looking at pics, watching videos and trying to stimulate me in different ways.  With a lot of exploring and practice,  I began trickling, gushing, and eventually squirting ejaculate during my orgasms.  This just proves that any woman can do it given the right circumstances.

    As a woman and as a squirter, I can tell you what things are important to me (and I'm sure are important to many other women) in exploring this area of sexuality.  First of all, it's important that the woman is comfortable with herself and her sexuality.  I was with someone for eight years who I was not very sexually compatible with.  He made me feel very unattractive which, in turn, made me doubt myself.  I became very inhibited when it came to sex.  There were often times I would not orgasm during sex with him.  Sex became a dreaded chore.  For someone like me, who is very multi-orgasmic and who is a very sexual being, it was a depressing time in my life.  I allowed myself to be sexually oppressed and paid dearly for it.  Not being comfortable with myself, my sexuality, and my partner caused me to miss out on a lot of opportunities for great sexual exploration and experiences. 

    When I started dating Doc, he made me feel so comfortable with myself and expressing my sexuality, that sparks flew!  We both loved trying new things.  His complete acceptance of me and his supportive, understanding and no-pressure attitude about sex made it possible for us to explore each other and many possibilites, including female ejaculation.

    Another important thing is that the woman does not feel that if she doesn't ejaculate or doesn't want to ejaculate that you will be disappointed in her.  The whole point of sex is to enjoy yourselves immensly, not to make your girl squirt.  There are many women who trickle or gush ejaculate before, during, and/or after an orgasm.  Some can't orgasm and squirt at the same time.  The squirting itself isn't always an indicator of whether or not she is enjoying herself.  Don't make that the focus of your encounters and experiences together.  The pressure women often place on themselves alone is enough without feeling pressure from their mate.  Trust me.

     Probably one of the most important things by far is to realize that every woman can squirt, SO, instead of concentrating on finding a woman who can already squirt, look for other, more important qualities.  I find that the women who do squirt are usually more comfortable with themselves and their sexuality, so that would be a start.  Another good indicator is someone who, even if not totally comfortable with themselves, is at least open to trying new things and has an adventurous attitude about sex.  This is not a quick fix and does not guarantee if you find a woman with these qualities she will squirt, but this is generally what I have found to be true with the squirters I know.  Masturbation is a key indicator also.  This goes back to the fact that women who masturbate are generally more comfortable with themselves sexually and more knowledgeable about what works for them.  This makes it a lot easier to progress into G-spot play and squirting as it already feels natural to touch themselves sexually without a partner always doing the work for them.  I have had some really great squirting orgasms alone.  All the more fun to show and share with a partner when you know what you are doing already.  

Well, I hope this helped answer some of your questions.  I can go on and on about this but I tried to be brief *S*....Have fun and good luck....

xoxoxoxoxox   Krystal

Now let's find some like minded adults!